The Marriage Mastery Webconference
A Relationship-Saving Experience!
Introducing a New Webconference - Coming Soon
All relationships are challenging — so learning the skills to navigate them is essential. The Marriage Mastery Webconference teaches the requisite tools for relationship success.
This course enables us to not merely survive but to thrive in our relations.
Marriage Mastery shares the breakthrough insights and exceptional techniques that enlighten our relationships. This program is developed and facilitated by Mel Schwartz, psychotherapist and author of the widely acclaimed book, The Art of Intimacy, The Pleasure of Passion.
Mel is a noted marriage counselor and has pioneered a uniquely successful protocol for creating joyful relationships. His work illuminates the insights and skills that enable joyful relating. Mel is widely recognized as a leading thinker and innovator in relationship work. He has worked with individuals and couples locally, nationally and internationally.
Participate in this exceptional opportunity and learn to:
- Break free from the old arguments
- Communicate with clarity and compassion
- Achieve the skills of empathic listening
- Re-create passion
- Develop a shared vision
- Become best friends and lovers
Would you rather be right or would you rather be happy?
The argument about who is right or wrong blocks the opportunity for joyful relating. Mel often asks couples if they’d rather be happy or if they’d rather be right. Although everyone claims that they prefer happiness, they default to the fight about right or wrong. He teaches us to break free from this mindless habit, creating opportunities to thrive in our relationship.
The solutions to relationship struggles lie in learning the art of listening. The gift of dialogue — of truly hearing one another and validating your partner’s point of view, even if you’re not in agreement — provides the foundation for an intimate exchange. The loss of emotional intimacy is at the heart of relationship difficulties.
Please visit the Webconferences page to learn how our Webconference offers work.
Or for further information, fees, or to register, call 203.227.5010 or email Mel at Mel@Melschwartz.com.
(Private sessions also available.)

Mel Schwartz LCSW, Mphil is a psychotherapist, marriage counselor, executive coach and seminar leader. He is the author of
The Art of Intimacy, The Pleasure of Passion and the forthcoming
A Shift of Mind. He earned his graduate degree from Columbia University and has been a keynote speaker at Yale University. Mel is the founder of the Emergent Thinking process — a landmark approach to personal evolution. His practice is in Westport, CT.
Watch Mel discuss marriage on CBS News
Past Events Have Included:
A Shift of Mind
A 7-week course based upon the forthcoming book
Rethinking the Way We Think
Reframing the Way We Live
Re-envisioning the Way We Relate
Tuesdays, 7:30-9pm - starting April 26, 2011
Westport, CT, location TBA
Mel’s blog – A Shift of Mind – has been read by hundreds of thousands of people and has evolved into a book by the same name. This course presents an opportunity to learn the many breakthrough insights and innovative skills that Mel integrates into his therapy approach.
Mel distills many of the fascinating discoveries from the emerging worldview into practical, everyday lessons for living more mindfully, more peacefully and more joyfully.
Join us and learn to:
- Develop a mastery of thinking
- Communicate with clarity and confidence
- Move past limiting & false beliefs
- Create resilient and connected relationships
- Actualize to your fullest potential
- Overcome your struggles with anxiety & depression
Communicating with Confidence and Clarity
A 6-week workshop
Sec. A: Thursdays, 11am-12:30pm - starting March 24th, 2011
Sec. B: Tuesdays, 7:30pm-9:00pm - starting March 22nd, 2011
Westport, CT, location TBA
Ineffective communication greatly impedes our relationships, happiness and success.
Arguments become stuck and visions go unfulfilled.
Successful communicating is an essential for a life well lived.
Take this opportunity to achieve the insights and skills necessary to live to your potential.
You will learn how to:
- Express yourself authentically — without fear
- Get past the argument and be heard
- Speak without concern of judgment
- Suspend your reactions and learn to listen
- Achieve a mastery of your thinking process
- Articulate with clarity and confidence
With a Shift of Mind…
Your Life Emerges
The Emergent Thinking Course
Tuesdays: 7:30-9:00pm - starting January 26th, 2010 (6 weeks)
Westport Location, TBA
The Emergent Thinking course is a dynamic learning experience, in which psychotherapist and author, Mel Schwartz shares his breakthrough approach to personal evolution.
He integrates many of the remarkable discoveries from the emerging sciences into a practical everyday approach for becoming unstuck and living to your fullest potential.
This promises to be a life-altering experience!
Join us and learn to:
- Develop powerful mastery of thought and communication skills
- Transcend issues of anxiety, depression, fear and existential struggle
- Attain new levels of confidence and learn to release fearful thinking
- Break free from the habitual replay of old thoughts, feelings and habits
- Enhance your intellectual intuition and learn to utilize synchronicity
- Liberate your relationships from old patterns
In traditional psychotherapy we may spend many years exploring the causes of our struggles, looking backward in a reductive way. Yet, we still struggle to change, if not transform our lives. We long to get unstuck from our habitual patterns.
Mainstream therapy is stuck as well, in a paradigm of outmoded science based upon objectivity and causality. This worldview encumbers our lives, demoralizes our souls and creates disempowerment and fear.
The problem is not what we think, but how we think. If we long for change, and better still, transformation, we need to learn to think in an emergent manner. Emergent Thinking enables us the mastery to live more joyfully and creatively.
For fees, registration and additional info contact Mel at Mel@Melschwartz.com or 203.227.5010.
Lecture: The Power of Mind,
An Introduction to Emergent Thinking
October 2, 2009 • 8:00 pm • $15.00
Temenos Institute Westport CT
This evening Mel Schwartz, a visionary thinker, psychotherapist and author will share his groundbreaking new work about transforming the mind. He distills many of the remarkable discoveries from the emerging sciences and integrates them into a simple, practical model for personal evolution.
Mel will reveal his singular approach to:
- Overcome anxiety, distress and fear
- Enliven your relationships
- Liberate yourself from the groove of old thinking
- Live a masterful life
- Turn your mind into your ally
For additional info please call 203.227.5010 or email
Mel@ melschwartz.com.
Unleash the Power of your Mind
The Emergent Thinking® Class
Tuesdays, 7:30-9pm • Starting Sep. 22nd (8 weeks)
Westport CT
The Emergent Thinking class is a dynamic learning experience, in which Mel Schwartz shares his breakthrough approach to personal transformation. He integrates many of the remarkable discoveries from the emerging sciences into a practical everyday approach for harnessing change and living mindfully.
This class promises to be a life-altering experience!
Join us and learn to:
- Develop a powerful mastery of thought and communication skills
- Transcend issues of anxiety, depression, fear and existential struggle
- Attain new levels of confidence and learn to release fearful thinking
- Break free from habitual replay of old thoughts, feelings and habits
- Enhance your intellectual intuition and learn to utilize synchronicity
- Liberate your relationships from old patterns
The Emergent Thinking process has literally transformed my thinking and my life!
–Stan Crouch, Investment Banker
Mel is a brilliant thinker and teacher. His work with me has sparked insights and changes that I never would have imagined possible.
–Patty Bernhard, Teacher
Mel Schwartz' Emergent Thinking Process galvanized profound changes in my life.
–Helen Smith, Educator and Trainer
In traditional psychotherapy we may spend many years exploring the causes of our struggles, looking backward in a reductive way. Yet, we still struggle to change, if not transform our lives. We long to get unstuck from our habitual patterns. Mainstream therapy is stuck as well, in a paradigm of outmoded science based upon objectivity and causality. This worldview encumbers our lives, demoralizes our souls and creates disempowerment and fear. The problem is not what we think, but how we think. If we long for change, and better still, transformation, we need to learn to think in an emergent manner. Emergent Thinking enables us the mastery to live more joyfully and creatively.
For fees, registration and additional info please call 203.227.5010
or email Mel@ melschwartz.com. Limited Seating.
Overcoming Anxiety and Depression A Six Week Class
Group meets Monday nights, starting May 11th, 7:30-9:00pm
Westport CT
Depression and anxiety have reached epidemic proportions in our culture. Untold millions of people search for help; in traditional psychotherapy and/or drugs. Yet, most of them still struggle. There is a misinformed belief among many professionals that the best you can do with anxiety and depression is to manage it.
This belief is limiting, self-fulfilling and damaging. Groundbreaking psychotherapist, Mel Schwartz lays this myth to rest as he shares his unique approach to overcoming anxiety and depression. He is the founder of the Emergent Thinking® process, as seen on NBC and to be featured in Business Week.
This group will help you to:
- See how your operating beliefs limit your life experience
- Break free from the groove of old thought and emotions
- Experience the unlimited potentiality of your life
- End the relentless measuring of your thoughts
- Turn your mind into your ally
- Live a fully participatory and creative life, without fear
For further details, dates and fees please call 203.227.5010
or email
Mel@ melschwartz.com
The Power of Mind: Overcoming the
Epidemic of Anxiety and Depression
Tuesday, June 9th, 7:30pm
NYU Kimmel Center, 60 Washington Square South,
Rosenthal Pavilion, 10th floor
Limited seating. Pre-register: $25, Door $30
Depression and anxiety have reached epidemic proportions, only made worse by the financial meltdown. Tens of millions of people search for help; with traditional psychotherapy and/or drugs. Yet, most of us still struggle. Many professionals incorrectly believe that the best you can do with anxiety and depression is to manage it.
This belief is limiting, self-fulfilling and damaging. Groundbreaking psychotherapist, Mel Schwartz lays this myth to rest as he shares his unique method in overcoming anxiety and depression.
For further information and to register email Mel@melschwartz.com.
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